Tuesday, March 10, 2009

My two best friends: Kelly and Hannah

I have been thinking a lot about my two very best friends (both who I grew up with) and the struggles that they have had in trying to have a child. I have definitely known a couple of good friends who have also struggled with this at some point in their lives and I have never understood God's reasoning. Now that my best friends are going through the same thing I find myself struggling once again with God's reasoning. (I mean, I know God's timing/will/etc but I still struggle!)

I guess it just seems that more and more women are having difficulty getting pregnant, which is so scary. I see the measure that my best friends are taking to have a child and it just doesn't make sense for any women to have to do that. I also get frustrated hearing/seeing news coverage of abused kids or (careless) women who have abortions. I just think it's selfish. (Sorry if I step on anyone's toes with the topic of abortion.) I just think...there are so many women who can't have children so why be SO selfish? I know if it were myself who could not have a child I would be frustrated with those "careless" women and surely doubtful to God.

I wrote all of this because as I mentioned before, my best friends Kelly and Hannah have been trying to get pregnant for a while, they have been to the doctors and been on medicine, yet still no luck. After a couple of years of trying, Kelly and her husband Ryan have prayed about In-Vitro and feel that God has led them in this direction. She started the process a couple of weeks ago and as of yesterday she had surgery to retrieve the eggs and they took out 10...which is great! On Thursday the doctors will see how many embryo formed and they will insert (2) embryos inside of her. Please keep her in your prayers.

My other best friend Hannah (and her husband Mac) have also struggled with getting pregnant for a year or so. After much prayer, they have decided to seek adoption and feel God has led them to adopting in Russia. They are in the process of lots of paperwork and will hopefully be in full swing pretty soon in hopes of getting a little Russian boy to love on!

I know that some of you reading have also dealt with this struggle in your own life or know close friends that have dealt with this as well. Please take a brief moment to pray for my two best friends that God will continue His work and they will bring home a precious baby. I am very excited about all of this!

3 comments:

the murphy's said...

Just want to let you know that I will be lifting them both up in prayer. God is good and faithful. We may not understand now or ever, but He is good and His timing is perfect. The struggles that we went through to have a baby, ended up bringing me much closer to Him and I now have a much stronger faith.

I hope you are doing well. I think about you so much. I miss yall!

The Lucero Family said...

Thanks Lori Beth! It is tough at times, but I think that having friends like you...that remember to pray for us definitely makes it alot easier! You and Josh are the best and we love you both very much!

I can't wait to see how Kelly's procedure turns out!

Rebekah @ reclaimed riches said...

I would have love to see you, too. You could have taken us around the city. We had a great time, but I am sad that I didn't know you lived there!!!